Getting Over My Fear of Shooting: A Personal Journey

Let me start by saying this: I was terrified of guns. The mere thought of holding one made my palms sweat, and the sound of gunfire, even on TV, sent my heart racing. Maybe you feel the same way. If you’re reading this, you might be wondering if you can overcome that fear and step into the world of shooting with confidence. I’m here to tell you—it’s absolutely possible.

Let me share my story and the steps I took to turn fear into confidence.

Acknowledging the Fear

First, I had to admit to myself that I was afraid. My fear wasn’t just about the physical power of a firearm—it was the responsibility that came with it. What if I accidentally hurt myself or someone else? What if I froze in a moment where I needed to act?

I realized that the fear wasn’t irrational; it was rooted in respect for the tool and the unknown. I also realized that fear doesn’t have to stop you—it can guide you toward learning and growth.

Education is Key

The first step I took was educating myself. I signed up for a basic firearm safety course, and I’ll be honest—I almost didn’t go. The idea of being in a room with strangers, holding something I feared, was intimidating. But the instructors were patient, professional, and incredibly kind.

They started with the fundamentals: how firearms work, safety protocols, and how to handle them responsibly. By the end of that first class, I realized something important: knowledge is empowering. The more I learned, the less mysterious—and less scary—guns became.

Taking Baby Steps

After completing the course, it was time to face the range. I didn’t jump straight into shooting; I started small. The first time I held a firearm at the range, I didn’t even load it. I just focused on feeling the grip, understanding the weight, and getting comfortable.

When I was ready to take that first shot, I’ll admit I was shaking. But the instructor was right there, calmly guiding me through the steps: grip, stance, aim, breathe. When I finally pulled the trigger, the sound and recoil startled me—but I also felt a rush of accomplishment.

Repetition Builds Confidence

That first trip to the range wasn’t magical. I didn’t instantly fall in love with shooting or feel like an expert. But I went back. Again and again. Each time, I gained a little more confidence and a lot more control.

Repetition helped me move past the fear. The more I practiced, the more shooting became about focus, precision, and growth instead of fear and anxiety.

Finding a Supportive Community

One of the biggest turning points for me was finding a community. I joined a local gun club (shoutout to Equal Aim Gun Club!), where I met people who understood my fears because they’d been there too.

The club was full of experienced shooters who offered tips, encouragement, and sometimes just a friendly smile. Being surrounded by people who prioritized safety and inclusivity made all the difference.

Turning Fear into Respect

Over time, my fear transformed into respect. I realized that firearms aren’t something to be afraid of—they’re tools. Like any tool, they require responsibility, training, and practice.

That respect has made me a safer, more confident shooter. I no longer feel like I’m holding something dangerous; I feel like I’m in control of something powerful.

What I Learned Along the Way

If you’re struggling with a fear of shooting, here’s what I want you to know:

It’s Okay to Be Afraid. Fear doesn’t make you weak; it makes you human.
Start Small. Take baby steps, whether it’s holding an unloaded gun, learning the parts, or shooting for the first time.
Find the Right Teachers. A good instructor makes all the difference. Look for someone patient and knowledgeable.
Practice Patience. Confidence doesn’t happen overnight. Give yourself grace and time to learn.
Lean on a Community. Joining a club or group can provide encouragement and support.

Where I Am Today

Now, going to the range feels almost like a form of therapy. It’s a space where I can focus, improve, and challenge myself. I still respect firearms immensely, but I no longer feel intimidated by them.

If I can overcome my fear of shooting, so can you. It’s not about being fearless—it’s about being brave enough to take the first step. You’ve got this!